In the loop: Home Assignment 2026 Stage 5 - Colorado

Some things just never get old - no matter how old we get along the way. Driving down from Montana to Colorado Springs, passing through Denver, the drive between Denver and Colorado Springs is baked into my memory from the many times that we crossed these passes. Even though the “towns” - which have become cities - along the way have spread out along the highway and into the foothills of the mountains. Even though Colorado Springs reaches all the way to Air Force Academy, turning what had been a city of 225,000 people into a city of almost 500,000 people. Some of the views and places remain the same. 

My heart skips a beat every time I see “the Peak” - Pike’s Peak. Almost every road you take in the Springs points down or away from the Peak, with Cheyenne mountain on its side. I will never tire of seeing this sight. The play of the sunlight on its sides or the dancing of the shadow of the clouds being blown past on the wind all make for a show that never ends. It is new every time I see it. And it is nice that we can have some certainties as well as new moments every time we come to visit. 

One of our certainties includes visiting the same coffee place we have visited since before we even moved to Belgium. La Baguette was one of THE places to be in Old Colorado City back in the 80’s and it is still there. The coffee is not worth drinking, but we like to visit. This time we were able to visit with Scott’s brother and his wife. Then we walked the old town street, stopping in some beautiful galleries and making new acquaintances. Scott stopped in to a barbershop to get his hair cut and meet more new people. 

On Wednesday evening we went to the midweek Bible study at Pikes Peak Avenue. This is always a meeting of good friends and family. Some of the members there went to high school with Scott and John (Scott’s brother). Others knew Scott from when he first put on the Lord in baptism. But we also met several new members of the congregation and talked of how God has touched our lives in so many ways. It is good to have family in so many places. 

Our last stop in Colorado Springs included dinner with Scott’s sister. Conversation included memories of old times, of course. Barb is the oldest child of the family, but she was often the mom at moments. Scott and John sometimes remember things differently or not at all. But it was good to share together. It continues to amaze that time and distance does not completely dissolve our relationship. 

After the few days (much too few) in the Springs, we drove up to Denver to share and make new memories there as well. My other brother - Bret Carter has been my best friend since Junior High School and brought me to Christ - now has a growing family. It is fun to share laughter and new games with the kids as well as memories with Bret and his family. 

On the Saturday we were invited to join with Ruby Mirror, which is a group made up of Bret and his sister, two of his cousins and Scott’s brother, John. There was also a new guitarist for this session. Scott used to sing with them when they were all teens in a group called Summer Breeze. You can find the recording of this fun “concert” (we were basically jamming a planned set of songs) on Facebook. 

We also were able to meet up with the Ross. Henk and Celia are not only good friends but mentors. Scott spent time with them and their sons when he was an apprentice back in the 80’s. And Henk and Celia (who worked with the church in Den Dolder, the Netherlands) helped us with Bible camp and much more. They have since moved to the States to be with their kids. 

On Sunday Scott brought the sermon and the study at the Miller Street church of Christ and we once again got to meet new people and connect again with old friends and church family. In the evening we visited Bret’s mom in hospital where she is recovering from a broken arm (she is 92). She still teaches Bret’s kids piano and hopefully will again soon when her arm heals. 

And then, as soon as it rolled into our travel days, the time in Colorado was finished and we were driving away East, up into the cornfields of Nebraska and Iowa. But that is for the next story. 

You can find pictures of this stage here. 

Whatsit Wednesday: Hand axe of Kesselt

What do you think of when you think of a fist? A fist might be used for various things, but I think first of using it as a weapon. When one gets angry, someone might tell you to put your fists away. A person might stand with balled fists when they are ready to fight. So hearing about a fist axe might give a clear picture of what is meant - except that it doesn’t. 

Our town in Belgium is made up of seven little villages. We live in Neerharen, our colleagues live in Veldwezelt and on the edge of the whole conglomeration is the farming town of Kesselt. They also have a large brickworks there. But long ago, this was one of the places that people came across the river and started settling. And in settling, they used a “fist axe” or as the English language would generally say, a “hand axe”. 

The “hand axe of Kesselt” is well-known because it is probably one of the oldest tools found in all of the Benelux. It was made and used by the Neanderthals or earlier. These are the people who first populated this area. The hand axe is made of silex or flint and can be created in 15 minutes by those who know what they are doing. The hand axe of Kesselt is in the Gallo-Roman Museum in Tongeren. 

A hand axe was multifunctional. They could be used to file things down, to cut up animals that had been hunted, to dig up edible roots or to work wood to a useful shape. It find in the hand - or more specifically in Dutch, the fist. There are very few examples of these tools in the Netherlands except in South Limburg and the area around Maastricht. Kesselt is separated from Maastricht only by the Albert Canal which was dug around 1930. 

The Belgians continue to be a people who are very creative in how they use their hands and their tools. The saying goes that every Belgian is “born with a brick in his stomach” meaning that they all want to build their own house. But they have moved on from “fist axes” to modern tools in building these house - although they still use bricks. 

Beginning the loop

Each time we plan this Home Assignment (the trip we take every three years to re-connect with supporting congregations and family) it always includes a section of driving. We usually leave Minnesota and make a loop through Iowa, Colorado, returning to Minnesota before flying on. When Stephan moved to Indiana, we cadded this to the loop, but later made Indy a flight.

This time, since Scott’s brother and mother moved to Montana, the loop will include Montana, Colorado and Iowa before returning to Minnesota. The beginning of this loop includes three stops: Sioux City, Iowa; Belle Fourche, South Dakota; and Billings, Montana. Pull out a map and follow along on this exciting first section of the loop. 

Our first real stop on the loop is planned to be Billings, Montana, but to get there from Minnesota we have to drive quite a few miles (or kilometers). So we split the drive up into three sections and planned on visiting good friends and supporters along the way. The first stop was after a shorter drive of 5 hours to Sioux City, Iowa. This city is in the Northwest corner of Iowa and is only about an hour away from Omaha, Nebraska. We stopped here back in 2023 on our way to visiting Shirley’s family and took a picture of our friends’ house before they even saw it. 

This time we stopped to spend an evening and morning with Daniel and Tonita Stovall and also got to see Dale and Vicki Hawley who live in the area and have been mentors and encouragers throughout our time. Tonita is originally from Omaha, where Shirley is also from. She and Shirley were roommates at Harding and Tonita was the maid of honor at Shirley’s wedding. Daniel sang at our wedding. They were influential in connecting us with the support of the congregation in Minnesota when they were living and working there. 

They have continued supporting us financially and we have almost always found a way to get together in Texas for an afternoon when they were living there. This time we were able to play some guitar, reminisce and even talk about future plans. It was an encouraging stop along the way to our next stop in South Dakota. 

After spending a night on the edge of Iowa, we drove out across South Dakota on what would be a long 8 hour drive. Much of eastern South Dakota is farmland and flat. But toward the West the country starts getting quite rugged. We took a short section through the “Badlands” and stopped for a restroom break at Wall Drug. Hundreds of billboards along the route across South Dakota tell all drivers to stop in at Wall Drug Store. 

Our trip ended in Belle Fourche, South Dakota where we connected with the sister of one of our members from Maastricht. She and her family work with the church in this beautiful little city and surrounding area. They had arranged a beautiful retreat for us after our drive. This was the first time we had been alone for some time. The sunrise woke us for another new day and we met the family for a breakfast in town before heading off on another long drive towards Montana. 

To get to Billings, Montana, we would drive through the Northwest corner of Wyoming, driving right past the natural monument of Devil’s Tower. This looks like a mountain that has been scratched down the side by a monstrous bear (which is one of the myths around it). We skirted a severe storm, glimpsed the Rocky Mountains in the distance and finally drove into Billings by the evening. Scott’s brother and sister-in-law welcomed us along with Scott’s mom who lives with them. 

For a few days we enjoyed the quiet ruggedness of this cowboy state. Lots of pickup trucks and casino’s (entering the state we were greeted with a sign “Entering Crow Country” - the Crow being the local Indian tribe). We went out to breakfast with Scott’s mom - a local “greasy spoon” eatery where she has met lots of regulars sitting at the counter and the waitresses all know her by name. We went walking along the Yellowstone River with Chris and Lynette one morning and visited an immense sporting goods store called Scheel’s (“Like a Cabela’s but better” we were told). 

This was a place of rest and retreat, connecting with family. The severe weather came and went, slashing hail across the yard, but we were safe and well inside. Scott got to discgolf again (he had done a little in Minnesota and California) and we enjoyed time together. On Sunday we met with the local church of Christ and ran into some people who knew people we knew as well as being built up by a wonderful lesson and worship time. Family is clearly important in Montanas. 

This first section of the loop was full of sharing memories and making new ones, time to rest and recover from the traveling we have been doing. Our next stop will be in Colorado. It will start with a long drive through Wyoming and down to Colorado Springs, but we are looking forward to the next step. 

You can find pictures of this first section of the loop here.